You Can't Say That to Me: Stopping the Pain of Verbal Abuse--An 8- Step ProgramYou can't say that to me Can't you do anything right? I can'tbelieve you would feed that junk to your child What is this? Anddon't tell me it's a casserole, I already know that. If youreally cared about me, you wouldn't behave this way. Soundfamiliar? Each of us occasionally feels the sting of veryunpleasant language from those who are closest to us spouses, employers, friends, relatives. But frequent and repeated use ofunanswerable questions,