Parenting Out of ControlThey go by many names: helicopter parents, hovercrafts, PFHs (Parents from Hell). The news media is filled with stories of well intentioned parents going to ridiculous extremes to remove all obstacles from their childs path to greatness . . . or at least to an ivy league school. From cradle to college, they remain intimately enmeshed in their childrens lives, stifling their development and creating infantilized, spoiled, immature adults unprepared to